How to Know if Your Spouse Cheats?
If you ever feel that your spouse is in some sort of infidelity for some time now, then you should take action by listening to the words they say. On the other hand, there are vague signs as well as other instances that you might refuse to believe what you are seeing and what you are hearing. Check out these signs and see for yourself whether your husband or wife is cheating and get this over with.
Number 1. You found a condom in his wallet or car – as a matter of fact, this is deemed as a red flag most especially if you found contraceptive pills in his cabinet or if you, yourself takes pills. When you try to confront them regarding this matter, their response is often defensive and seems to evade the question.
Number 2. Obsessed about staying healthy and fit – your husband or wife might possibly have enrolled on a gym, gets a makeover or has undergone a cosmetic surgery despite telling him/her that you love them. There’s a chance that they aren’t trying to look gorgeous personally for you but for someone else if this is the case.
Number 3. They bought a new phone or has created a new social networking account or email – if you have nothing to hide from your partner, then there is no reason to create a separate account from the said and hide it from your spouse.
Number 4. Working late all time – if your spouse constantly tell you that he or she will be working late and hasn’t seen their pay slip or has not received extra cash on payday, this can be a sign that they’re in a secret relationship with someone.
Number 5. Being helpful with the laundry – if for example that your man is thoroughly checking their clothes before throwing it in the washing machine, then this can give you a sign that something is wrong.
Number 6. Come back home with a different scent – better watch out for a red lipstick mark anywhere on his shirt particularly around the collar, which is actually a very classic sign that your spouse is cheating.
Number 7. Lose of intimacy – most of the time, a cheating wife or husband would not want to sleep with you. According to psychologists, this might be because of their guilt feeling over engaging in infidelity or he/she might do the opposite and want to have sex all time. If it’s the latter, then this may be because that they’re imagining another person while doing it with you.